How Structures Can Bring Freedom

Structures, they’re a bit like marmite, you either love them or hate them. 

I’ll be honest, as a constant seeker of freedom I’ve been avoiding structures for quite some time (I also have a pretty great memory so who needs a to-do list right?).

I’m going to let you in on a secret about structures (and some of you reading this already know because you loooove structures) the secret is that structures give you freedom. Whaaaat? I know, I didn’t believe it either I’ve been resisting them for years!

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Gail Bainbridge
Ridding Ourselves of 'Spender's Guilt'

Picture it. You’re online having a browse, say you’re looking at shoes. You happen upon a really lovely pair of trainers. They’re in the sale, and you look down at your own that are getting on a little bit now and decide to click ‘add to basket’. There it is, the guilt.

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Gail Bainbridge
What Does Balance Look Like?

When you think about balance, do you imagine a set of vintage kitchen scales with the little weights piled on the left and your mum gently tapping the flour out of the bag into the metal tray on the right until it looks perfect? Maybe yours is a different image, but what I want to challenge here is the idea that there is a perfect balance, that there is a point when we will be able to say ‘yes, that’s it, I’ve reached balance!’

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Gail Bainbridge
Are you 'Financially Aware'?

Awareness is being aware of something. Being aware. Not passing judgment, trying to fix or alter, just being aware.

The thing is, when it comes to money awareness is something that we can shy away from, applying the old ostrich technique of head in the sand. Maybe, just maybe, if we don’t look it’ll all work itself out. 

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Gail Bainbridge
What Do You Value?

I used to spend my life trying to figure out what my purpose was – trying to figure out what life is all about. Am I supposed to do something significant? There are lots of things that I care passionately about should I be standing up and fighting for a cause? I’ll be honest I felt like I wouldn’t be fulfilled until I found my one true purpose.

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Gail Bainbridge
The Money Stories We Tell Ourselves

In order to move forward, we kind of need to get to grips with where we’ve come from right? It’s no different when it comes to money. In Week One of the Finding Your Balance program, we look at the stories we tell ourselves about money. So what do I mean by ‘stories’, and how might understanding them help us to get our finances in order?

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Gail Bainbridge
Accountant to Traveller - How I Made My Money Work For Me

I was an accountant for 20 years, I fell into it really because I was good at numbers and I wanted to escape the job I hated working in a supermarket.

I worked with hundreds of mostly small owner managed businesses in my 20 years, and here’s the thing - I never found anyone who was happy about the amount of money they had or who didn’t worry about it all the time. In fact I’ll confess I was the same, no matter how much I earned I never seemed to have money for the things that were important to me - things that I valued. In fact I spent most of my adult life in debt.

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